Podcast Talk Show Host Susan McCord has a “shoot from the hip” interview with Andy who discusses the Ups & Downs (literally) of divorce & being single again at age 45. What did he learn about marriage & would he do it again? Learn what men really think when they are dealing with a divorce and the demise of a 20 year relationship. He’s not afraid to answer the questions and Susan is not afraid to ask them!
PODCAST SHOW – DATING: ARE THEY REALLY WORTH CRYING OVER??
· Still crying after a breakup 2 years later? Time to get laid!
· Pity parties allow you to live as a victim, mingling helps you grow!
· “Own” your part in the breakup to move on a faster recovery…
· Was it love? or… Really your ego that got hurt?
· Did they dump your ass? Fight back with a makeover!
HOT TOPIC: INTERESTING SEX ENHANCERS (Not for Everyone)
· Use The Slippery Kitty or Kama Sutra Oil of Love as lubricants
· The Lacie Heart Pocket Pal is a man’s NEW best friend!
· Try The Inflatable Tilt Master for easy positioning
· Sensitive nipples? We recommend: The Tickling Bra
· Be sure to visit: The Naughty Vending Machine in Edinburgh, Scotland
Relationship Advice: What does taking a break in a relationship really mean? So many people are doing it today & how do they get away with it? It is the same as having your cake & eating it too ~ you may as well cut off a big piece & spoon feed it to them!
This is the lazy & insincere person’s way of ending a relationship, because they don’t want to be alone right away. They want to be able to lean on you when they can & keep their options open. Both sexes initiate this scenario today, especially in the twenty something crowd. Wouldn’t it be better to stay single & date rather than have to hurt someone in this manner? It is not a nice place to be as it is seldom reciprocated.
What are the reasons for couples to want to take a break?
• They are easing into a full time breakup.
• It can be used as a threatening tool to get something more out of the relationship that they are not receiving.
• It allows more nights out with friends or separate vacations.
• Stalls the marriage discussions.
• Trying to keep them interested by being evasive & playing hard to get.
• Being more in control
Ultimately taking a break means the relationship is over. If you are bored, or have fallen out of love, what is a break going to do? You can’t force yourself to love them? If you take a break & then end up getting married down the road, it usually ends up in divorce because the same problems are still there that always have been. People do not change that much.
What does this “Break” entail?
• Are you allowed to have sex with others during this time apart?
• Do you see each other at all?
• Are you still having sex with them and have now basically been demoted to a booty call?
• How long is it for and is there a set time limit?
This scenario is not a good situation to fall into. You are temporarily on hold to see if they can find someone better than you. There is a chance that they may “settle for you” if nothing comes along but will you ever feel good about that? Don’t ever put yourself number two. If a relationship is right, it really isn’t that much work. When two people really love each other they want to be together. They are not happy being apart.
Ending a relationship with someone is one thing as it gives both people a new beginning, but being the person that doesn’t want to “take a break” is hanging around waiting for someone to decide whether their partner wants to be with them or not. Why ever put yourself in that position? So the next time someone asks you for a break tell them “sure, I was going to ask you if I could date your best friend this week anyway.” See how that goes over.
Talk show hosts discuss a popular dating book for men written by a man! (of course) “The Game” is a man’s bible on how to pick up women and even looks like a bible! This is a pick artists dream, maybe all women should read it too?! Some of the chapter’s titles are interesting all in themselves and gives a whole new meaning to how some men think. Is this book a good thing? At the very least it is an interesting read and has some witty moments. We’re all about men communicating & expressing themselves. It is nice to see men talking about relationships even if it isn’t always what women want to hear.
Dating/relationship Advice: What do you so if an EX contacts you on Facebook or Twitter? If an old flame or past love contacted you on Facebook or other social media would you respond? Would it make a difference if you were in a relationship? Would you tell your partner? Is it considered cheating when you contact an old lover even if you initially just want to say hi? Would you be OK if your partner also reciprocated this type of connection or is it a double standard scenario?
OK ladies listen up…This is a male point of view on the best way to entice a man! This is what men want to see when they first meet a woman. Simple advice from a man on dating & what attracts them. You might be surprised how simple it is. Men are not as complicated as women think they are. In fact it is quite the opposite. Dating doesn’t have to be difficult but it seems to be a problem with how men & women interact with each other.
Dating Advice: Best tips on how to entice a women. Do men really know how to entice a woman that they are interested in? Many men are confused about what to do these days with so many independent women out there! These simple tips will get you talking to the woman of your dreams. Don’t be shy to say hello, it is the easiest way to initially meet a women. Leave the judgments at home & be assertive. Women like a man with confidence.
What would you do if your partner wanted you to have a threesome & swing with your neighbors? Does this change your relationship over time or add to it? Can your sex-life ever be normal again after introducing this type of sex scenario? Do we always want more?
How do we keep our sex life alive in our relationship? Why do we become so complacent sexually? Do people not understand how important it is to keep intimacy a priority at home? If you want to keep your partner from cheating, keep them happy! This goes for both sexes.
Whether you are getting back out into the dating market or just need a reminder, these dating mistakes are a common discussion around the water cooler. Leave a little mystery as to who you are ~ do not divulge every little characteristic about yourself. Keep them wanting more!
Susan McCord @ http://www.yinyangtalk.com
Andrea Wesley @ http://musictomysoul-tulip.blogspot.com
What are you more attracted to when first meeting someone? Are looks really important you & is that being shallow? Judging a book by it’s cover can be a mistake sometimes & there is something to be said for a person with brains. Cute & dumb just doesn’t cut it for the long haul but it can be fun while you are on your dating journey!
Who has the biggest ego men or women & what are the differences? Do women really have to be right & do all men think they are good looking & great at sports? Thank God for the GPS invention, now there is less fighting while driving due men not asking for directions.
Do you believe that if you send out “what you want” to the Universe it will happen for you? So many people talk negatively about relationships & always seem to be unhappy. Why not make a list of what you are truly looking for & send out positive thoughts believing you are ready to meet that special person? By saying “out loud” that you are ready, just maybe someone will hear you. It’s worth a shot!
Many people tell way too much about themselves on the first date! Is it due to nervousness or insecurities? Do we need to know about all your operations or stories of your family dysfunction? Why not put out your best qualities or at least have a reciprocated conversation that is interesting & fun.
Why do people break-up but keep in constant contact with their Ex? Is it due to laziness and not wanting to put themselves out into the dating market? Or is it the familiar & available sex they miss the most? If it is over move on & find happiness with someone new. You broke up for a reason!
Dating/Relationship Advice: How do we tell our partner what we want in bed? Should we tell them or show them? We all want a better sex life so why are we afraid to say anything? Talk show hosts reveal their answers & discuss a few options.
Dating advice: Many women are offended by the word Cougar but it can be a good thing ladies. Don’t knock it till you try it. There are many benefits to dating a classy older woman wanting a sexual relationship without all the strings & commitment attached. It’s a win/ win situation for both!