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So? [tag-tec]Are you good in bed[/tag-tec]? This is a question we should all ask ourselves and maybe even our partner. If you don’t want to hear the answer, chances are, you may not be. Becoming a [tag-tec]good lover[/tag-tec] starts from WANTING to be.
Have you ever noticed how some people just ooze [tag-tec]sensuality[/tag-tec]? The way they walk, talk, dress, mannerisms etc. Usually, if they show this [tag-tec]sexual confidence[/tag-tec], chances are, they probably are in tune to the sensuous side of themselves…That is not to say that, quiet, introverted types are [tag-tec]boring in bed[/tag-tec], it can just be more work to find out! People tend to be attracted to the cover of the book before reading it!
Happy people seem to have a little swagger in their step. That is because they are either having regular sex, or are OK that they are not. Many disgruntled people are void of orgasmic release and it shows!
It is really important to learn how to talk to your partner in bed, and BEFORE you get there. Many things can be learned about each other when the questions are relayed gently and diplomatically.
Head nods towards the bedroom are not considered [tag-tec]foreplay[/tag-tec] or communication. It would be nice if we could all be dogs and just sniff out our conquest’s butt, but we are much more complicated than that. Damn it!
First of all, ask yourself if you really like sex? If you can take it or leave it, you may have to alter “that thinking”, if you want your partner to keep coming home to you. Find out what has turned you off and try to fix that. Ignoring it, is not going improve your relationship or your everyday moral.
Sex is a feel good part of life and when it is removed, you lose a part of yourself with it. How many times have you heard people say: [tag-tec]She/He needs to get laid[/tag-tec]?? Usually because they do! (Most uptight or [tag-tec]Anal people[/tag-tec] need a good boink) Do you enjoy [tag-tec]Oral Sex[/tag-tec] or do you have a hang-up about it?
How routine are you in the bedroom?
Questions to ask yourself about your bedroom antics:
· Are you an initiator?
· How secure are you with your body?
· Do you show your enjoyment sexually?
· Can your partner tell when you have an orgasm?
· Are you adventurous or repetitive?
· Do you vary the location or only in the bedroom?
· Do you make [tag-tec]eye contact[/tag-tec]?
· Are you a [ag-tec]communicator in bed[/tag-tec]? Light moans or a screamer?
· How loud are you in bed? Do they put a pillow over your head?
· Are you too quick to [tag-tec]climax[/tag-tec] or too slow?
